The householder supports the ascetic, the poor, the guests, the ancestors and himself; a home of love and virtue is itself the goal of life.
அன்பும் அறனும் உடைத்தாயின் இல்வாழ்க்கை
பண்பும் பயனும் அது.
Anpum Aranum Utaiththaayin Ilvaazhkkai
Panpum Payanum Adhu
Pope (1886)If love and virtue in the household reign, This is of life the perfect grace and gain
MeaningIf the married life possess love and virtue, these will be both its duty and reward
Word by word
அன்பும்love
அறனும்and virtue
உடைத்தாயின்if it possesses
இல்வாழ்க்கைdomestic life
பண்பும்its nature
பயனும்and its fruit
அதுis that
InsightValluvar does not rank the householder below the monk. If the home has love (aṉpu) and virtue (aṟam), these are both its character and its reward. The Vedic tradition likewise calls gṛhastha the āśrama that sustains all others.
இல்வாழ்வான் என்பான் இயல்புடைய மூவர்க்கும்
நல்லாற்றின் நின்ற துணை.
Ilvaazhvaan Enpaan Iyalputaiya Moovarkkum
Nallaatrin Nindra Thunai
Pope (1886)The men of household virtue, firm in way of good, sustainThe other orders three that rule professed maintain
MeaningHe will be called a (true) householder, who is a firm support to the virtuous of the three orders in
துறந்தார்க்கும் துவ்வாதவர்க்கும் இறந்தார்க்கும்
இல்வாழ்வான் என்பான் துணை.
Thurandhaarkkum Thuvvaa Dhavarkkum Irandhaarkkum
Ilvaazhvaan Enpaan Thunai
Pope (1886)To anchorites, to indigent, to those who've passed away, The man for household virtue famed is needful held and stay
MeaningHe will be said to flourish in domestic virtue who aids the forsaken, the poor, and the dead
தென்புலத்தார் தெய்வம் விருந்தொக்கல் தானென்றாங்கு
ஐம்புலத்தாறு ஓம்பல் தலை.
Thenpulaththaar Theyvam Virundhokkal Thaanendraangu
Aimpulaththaaru Ompal Thalai
Pope (1886)The manes, God, guests kindred, self, in due degree, These five to cherish well is chiefest charity
MeaningThe chief (duty of the householder) is to preserve the five-fold rule (of conduct) towards the manes, the Gods, his guests, his relations and himself
பழியஞ்சிப் பாத்தூண் உடைத்தாயின் வாழ்க்கை
வழியெஞ்சல் எஞ்ஞான்றும் இல்.
Pazhiyanjip Paaththoon Utaiththaayin Vaazhkkai
Vazhiyenjal Egngnaandrum Il
Pope (1886)Who shares his meal with other, while all guilt he shuns, His virtuous line unbroken though the ages runs
MeaningHis descendants shall never fail who, living in the domestic state, fears vice (in the acquisition of property) and shares his food (with others)
அறத்தாற்றின் இல்வாழ்க்கை ஆற்றின் புறத்தாற்றில்
போஒய்ப் பெறுவ தெவன்?
Araththaatrin Ilvaazhkkai Aatrin Puraththaatril
Pooip Peruva Thevan?
Pope (1886)If man in active household life a virtuous soul retain, What fruit from other modes of virtue can he gain
MeaningWhat will he who lives virtuously in the domestic state gain by going into the other, (ascetic) state ?
இயல்பினான் இல்வாழ்க்கை வாழ்பவன் என்பான்
முயல்வாருள் எல்லாம் தலை.
Iyalpinaan Ilvaazhkkai Vaazhpavan Enpaan
Muyalvaarul Ellaam Thalai
Pope (1886)In nature's way who spends his calm domestic days,'Mid all that strive for virtue's crown hath foremost place
MeaningAmong all those who labour (for future happiness) he is greatest who lives well in the household state
ஆற்றின் ஒழுக்கி அறனிழுக்கா இல்வாழ்க்கை
நோற்பாரின் நோன்மை உடைத்து.
Aatrin Ozhukki Aranizhukkaa Ilvaazhkkai
Norpaarin Nonmai Utaiththu
Pope (1886)Others it sets upon their way, itself from virtue ne'er declines; Than stern ascetics' pains such life domestic brighter shines
MeaningThe householder who, not swerving from virtue, helps the ascetic in his way, endures more than those who endure penance
அறனெனப் பட்டதே இல்வாழ்க்கை அஃதும்
பிறன்பழிப்ப தில்லாயின் நன்று.
Aran Enap Pattadhe Ilvaazhkkai
Aqdhum Piranpazhippa Thillaayin Nandru
Pope (1886)The life domestic rightly bears true virtue's name; That other too, if blameless found, due praise may claim
MeaningThe marriage state is truly called virtue The other state is also good, if others do not reproach it
வையத்துள் வாழ்வாங்கு வாழ்பவன் வான்உறையும்
தெய்வத்துள் வைக்கப் படும்.
Vaiyaththul Vaazhvaangu Vaazhpavan Vaanuraiyum
Theyvaththul Vaikkap Patum
Pope (1886)Who shares domestic life, by household virtues graced, Shall, mid the Gods, in heaven who dwell, be placed
MeaningHe who on earth has lived in the conjugal state as he should live, will be placed among the Gods who dwell in heaven